Balloons and how it's all gonna be okay.

Let's talk about what I'm thinking about right now. That husband o' mine. 

It's kinda like I'm always thinking about him, the way this blog reads, eh? I'm in the honeymoon stage and I very well plan to enjoy it and embrace it wholeheartedly. Not that I need to justify anything you, dear reader. But if you know this guy, well, then you get it. And if you don't know him, you should try to. He's just darling, I swear.

So anyways, Wednesday. Adrian's only day off. (Remember? We talked about this before, right here.) This past Wednesday he picked me up from work and we went to counseling. We started going a couple months ago to try to deal with some serious anxiety I was experiencing.


Yesterday was our last session with the counselor cause he's moving. He took some time to talk to us about what he's been thinking about us. He actually told us we were the best couple he's had. Adrian and I high-fived and proclaimed our victory over the other couples. Maturely, of course. He also said he really admires us as a couple, so you know we must be doing something right. 

And that got me thinking. I know I've told you all a bazillion times, but I am a lucky, lucky little lady. My husband came with me to counseling because he wanted to support me. He wanted me to be okay. And actually, it was his idea in the first place. He gave up an hour of his one day off to encourage me in facing some of these little anxiety demons. And each time I start letting those pesky little worries get the best of me, he's there with a bear hug or a phoned-in reassurance that we're going to be okay.

Sometimes I just need that reminder. I need to be told that in most of the situations I get so worked up about, there's just not a whole lot we can do. He always tells me we'll take things as they come, grabbing bits of peace of mind where we can. And that if we're together, no matter where we are or what we're doing, we will be okay.

And in the end, we always are okay.

I think if we're honest, we all need that reminder from time to time. That there is good in this world. That people do love us. And that, somehow, in the end, we will be okay.

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3 comments:

  1. I needed this! Sincerely. I needed to hear this today.

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  2. I hope this isn't a double post... Sorry if it is! My computer had a moment there. Lol

    Anywho... I just wanted to say that I adore your blog. I could read your posts all day long. Lol Hope your hubby had a marvelous b-day...

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  3. @Layla: I always wonder when I write if anyone reads it and if anyone is like, "yeah...i know what you mean" so thanks! Turns out I needed it too. :)

    @Tara: Thanks so much for your adoration. Heh. That sounds ridiculous. But honestly I'm always wowed by people who don't know me enjoying what I write. So thank you.

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